My parents’ German-Argentinian wedding, in which a
traditional “kidnapping of the bride” took place, serves
as inspiration for this story. How would someone in their
mid-30s behave and feel in such a situation today? Can
such a tradition exist despite supposed enlightenment and
emancipation? I discovered that the custom of abducting
the bride is still widely, and unquestioningly, practiced as
a playful part of many German weddings. In Marriage by
Abduction, I explore the concept of traditional marriage and
relationship models and critically examine those, through
two groups of people from different cultural backgrounds.
Luisa and Fred are mainly getting married for the legal
papers, but their new status as future husband and wife,
changes their dynamic. With a mix of absurd drama and
dark comedy I want to illuminate how deep old structures
ultimately run, how quickly one finds oneself back on wellworn
paths, meant to be left behind long ago. Their wedding,
which begins as an emancipation from traditional structures,
turns out to be proof of how difficult it is to create new ones.